

Here's Everything You Need to Know to Change Your Name After Marriage
Congratulations, you're married! If you want to start this exciting new chapter of your life with a new name, you're probably wondering about the process for getting a name change after marriage. While changing your name after the wedding isn't too complicated (we promise), it can be time-consuming and there is a sequence you need to follow. So, how do you change your last name after marriage? From legal name change requirements and a checklist of documents, to married name options and name change information for each state, we're here to help you get it all sorted.
Legal Name Change Documents
You could change your name socially but not legally. You'd introduce yourself with your new name and change your emails and social media presence. However, if you want to get a legal name change after marriage, you'll need to start by contacting a few government agencies. The name change process varies by state (more on that below), but generally speaking, you'll start with these pieces of identification: Your marriage certificate, Social Security Card, driver's license, birth certificate or passport.
1. Get your marriage certificate
Before you can legally change your name after marriage, you'll need a certified copy of your marriage certificate. We recommend getting numerous copies (for an additional fee) to help with the name change process.
2. Change your Social Security Card
Your next step is to change your last name on your Social Security Card. You'll have to request a replacement Social Security Card.
You can fill out an application (You can usually find the form online) or visit your local Social Security Administration office. After you fill out the form, they'll tell you your next steps, which typically include either mailing the required identification documents or bringing them to your local Social Security Administration office. While the Social Security Administration will mail you back your documents, it may be faster to hold on to them and bring them to the office.
After updating your info, the Social Security Administration will send you a new card for free. Keep in mind that you'll keep the same Social Security number—just your last name will be different.
Typical Social Security Card ID Requirements:
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Proof of legal name change (a certified copy of your marriage certificate)
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Proof of identification (i.e. driver's license, passport, state-issued non-driver identification card
3. Change your driver's license at the DMV
Once you've got your new Social Security Card, it's time to get a new driver's license with your new name. Depending on your state, you can mail your application and identification materials and/or make an appointment at the DMV. Send or bring every form of identification card that your local DMV instructs you to bring.
– be sure to check your state's DMV to find out what's required. There will be a fee, so check to see if your local DMV accepts cash, checks or credit cards.
Typical Driver's License ID Requirements:
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A copy of your current driver's license
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A copy of our new Social Security Card
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Proof of name change (a copy of your marriage certificate)
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Proof of address (bank statements, utility bills, or lease agreements with your current address)
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Photo ID (valid driver's license, state ID card, military ID, valid passport)
4. Update your US passport and travel documents
When it comes to a passport name change, the timing and location of your honeymoon is a consideration. If you are flying out of the country, the name on your airline tickets will need to match your passport. So if you have plane tickets booked with your maiden name, delay getting a new passport until you return. Once you're ready to proceed, you'll contact the US Department of State.
The process is different if you are applying for a passport for the first time versus if you have a passport but would like to change your name. It is also dependent on when your passport was issued and when you changed your name. It typically takes four to six weeks to get your passport but you can apply to get it expedited for an additional cost.
New name on your existing Passport ID Requirements:
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Your completed form
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Your current passport
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Your original marriage certificate or a certified copy
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A color passport photo
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If you are a member of a Government Trusted Traveler Program such as TSA PreCheck, Global Entry or Nexus, visit the Homeland Security website for further details on updating these ID card
Name Change Checklist
Once you have a certified copy of your marriage certificate, your updated Social Security Card and a new driver's license and passport, you can start changing your name with companies and services like your bank account, credit card and payroll. Here's a name change checklist of all the usual places you'll need to notify. Supplement this list with any additional spots where your maiden name appears.
____ Social Security Card
____ Drivers License
____ Passport
____ Vehicle Registration
____ State ID
____ Bank Account
____ Credit Cards
____ Employer/Payroll
____ Voter Registration
____ USPS (if changing your address)
____ Landlord/Mortgage Company
____ Insurance
____ Doctor’s Offices
____ Legal Documents
____ Subscriptions
Name Change Options After Marriage
You could take your spouse's last name and call it a day, however, there are several married name options for newlyweds. If you're considering an official name change, take the time to discuss this with your partner and make a decision well before you get your marriage certificate.
Last name change
The American tradition of the bride taking her husband's last name after marriage is based on coverture laws. In modern times, the decision to take your spouse's last name is a personal choice. While it is more common for brides to take their husband's last name, some partners both change their names to both last names. Just look at Victoria Peltz Beckham and Brooklyn Peltz Beckham.
Hyphenated last name
If you're attached to your last name for sentimental or professional reasons and don't want to completely let it go, a popular option is hyphenating your maiden name with your spouse's last name to establish a new name that honors your union.
Middle name change
Rather than hyphenating your last name, these days some newlyweds are changing their middle name to their maiden name (or adding a second middle name) and taking their spouse's last name.
Combined last name
Did you know that you can choose an entirely different last name—neither your maiden name nor your spouse's name? To do this, most states will require you to file a formal name change petition with the court. Some partners both combine their last names into something new.
Keeping your maiden name
For many individuals, keeping their maiden name is their preferred choice. If that sounds like you, turn your administrative attention to other practical matters such as how you will handle banking and paying bills as a married couple.
How to Change Your Name by State (provided by The Knot)
Looking for name change information specific to your state? With all of this general information in mind, we've got everything you need to know about the name change process in each state:
Alabama | Alaska |Arizona | Arkansas | California | Colorado | Connecticut | D.C. | Delaware | Florida | Georgia | Hawaii | Idaho | Illinois | Indiana | Iowa | Kansas | Kentucky | Louisiana | Maine | Maryland | Massachusetts | Michigan | Minnesota | Mississippi | Missouri | Montana | Nebraska | Nevada | New Hampshire | New Jersey | New Mexico | New York | North Carolina | North Dakota | Ohio | Oklahoma | Oregon | Pennsylvania | Rhode Island | South Carolina | South Dakota | Tennessee | Texas | Utah | Vermont | Virginia | Washington | West Virginia | Wisconsin | Wyoming
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